Patanjali Yog Sutras

patanjali yoga sutra
samadhipad
Sutra 37

sutra 37 Veet Raaga Vishyam Vaa Chittam
Veet Raaga Vishyam Vaa Chittam

Veet: Without
Raaga: Aattachment to pleasure
Vishayam: Objects of senses
Vaa: Also
Chittam: Chitta

(To still oneself on) a chitta which is free from attachments also (purifies the chitta).

You become what you follow, if you follow the sun, you exude its brightness, if you follow a monkey, you end up dancing around trees. Therefore look for a being who is him/herself free from the bondages of maya (attachment) and still yourself on him/her, your bondages will open.